HELP? Friends with benefits?!?

It seems like he wants you all to his self. NOT IN A GOOD WAY. Look at it like this, he stopped being friends with benifits because he never felt the same way, yet when he thinks your in a relationship he goes mental and wants to be friends with benifits again, which will probably lead to you gaining feelings again and him fobbing you off. It looks like he just wants you to be his and have that sort of attention of you without having strings attached which isnt very good. If i was you, id tell him you JUST want to be friends and to ask him to come over and make it clear, JUST FRIENDS.